WHY NORMAL SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE DICTIONARY!!!

The dictionary describes “NORMAL” as “conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.” So words that describe “NORMALE” are “ordinary, average, typical, run-of-the-mill, middle-of-the-road, common, conventional, mainstream, unremarkable, unexceptional, garden-variety”

Unfortunately, now a days for most the world their “NORMAL” doesn’t come close to what is describes from the dictionary or for the that matter what society say what it should be. Over the last 18 years it have become “NORMALE” to watch someone life to play out on T.V. or on social media but when someone sees me and boyfriend walking around together that not “NORMAL” to them.

The last couple days a lot of my friends have been writing about VALINTIMES and what it means to them with their DISABILLTY or how they fell about their partner. This is very hard for me because before when I thought I was in love it was very easy for me for to describe how I fell because I thought it was how I though I should fell but I know it wasn’t real love at all it was more of an obsessive love. 

WHY NORMAL SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE DICTIONARY!!!

My normal is living with CEREBRAL PALSY. If you don’t know what CERERAL PALSY is, “CEREBRAL PALSY is a condition marked by impaired muscle coordination (spastic paralysis) and/or other disabilities, typically caused by damage to the brain before or at birth.” This is my “NORMAL”

All my life I have wanted someone to call my own but my “NORMAL” was to “UNORMAL” to the guys I went for. It was because of the fact that I was running after the “NORMAL” that was in the dictionary. As soon as I realize my “NORMAL” wasn’t what was in the dictionary then I learned what my “NORMAL” was.

WHY NORMAL SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE DICTIONARY!!! 

Once I found my “NORMAL” I found a partner that fit my “NORMAL” because he knows what it is not to be the dictionary definition of “NORMAL” because not only does he have CEREBRAL PALSY like me but he also DEF.

            WHY NORMAL SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE DICTIONARY!!!

Are relationship doesn’t go by the dictionary definition of “NORMAL” for many reasons. I would say the 1100 miles apart we have is not would have been “NORMAL” but now a days with all kind of social media that is “NORMAL”.  It’s more like our “NORMAL” is talking with our hands by using “ASL or using a keyboard to communicate. Not yelling from the next room “HONEY I NEED YOUR HELP IN HERE OR DON’T FORGET THE KEYS ON THE WAY OUT”. (WHICH ALWAYS HAPPENS) Then there the times we need help with daily active such as dressing and things like that. This “NORMAL” for us because are whole life people have helped us with this in one way or another. We also know that we need people to have patients with us, so to have patient for each other it like “SECOND NATURE” to each other.

WHY NORMAL SHOULD BE TAKEN OUT OF THE DICTIONARY!!!

  I wouldn’t say I’m “UNIQUE” because the definition of UNIQUE is “being the only one of its kind; unlike anything else.” There are 17 million people in the world with CEREBRAL PALSY and yes we all have of own UNIQUENESS about use we all need the same or “SIMILAR” help.  As of now there just might be one word that I would replace “NORMAL” with in my life would “PATIENT” because without “PATIENT my kind of “NORMAL” wouldn’t exist.

I leave you with one question what is you “NORMAL” OR WOULD YOU USE ANOTHER WOULD FOR “NORMAL”???